Do Overs


If I could do it all again

would I make the same mistakes?

Would I bypass all the times

when I know my heart would break?

Would I still fall in love

with the father of my kids?

Would I do the dumb things

I remember that I did?

If I could go back,

and undo everything I’ve done…

Would I trade it all

to once again be young?

It is a tempting question,

to consider what I’d do,

to be able to wipe the slate clean,

To undo the things I wish I didn’t do…

And yet, I have to wonder

what the trade off would have to be

if I undid my life…

And could re-invent the one called “me

Even with all I now know…

and the lessons I have learned~

The “Do Over” I could have,

and the places I’d return,

I would still have to choose

all I know of in this life

If it meant being someone else’s mother

and someone else’s wife!

For all the ones that I have loved…

makes it worth it in the end~

To live the life with the ones I’ve loved

Yes~

I’d do it all again.

Hopefully with lessons learned

to make some slight revisions~

To gift me with the wisdom of today

In tomorrow’s new decisions.

Diane Reed

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59 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap
    Dec 18, 2012 @ 16:14:05

    So glad I came here and saw this wonderful post. Thank you. :-)

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  2. The Flat Girl
    Dec 04, 2012 @ 01:11:36

    Wow, that was so beautiful. I had to stop between each line and wonder if I would do it all again.

    For me, as you are learning, from reading my story.. it depends on the day, and which “pole” I am on that day. It’s challenging for certain. I love the people who have come and gone from my life, but the scars they have left are deep… If I were unscarred…

    So hard to answer with tears in my eyes.

    Always,
    Me

    Reply

  3. Raani York
    Dec 01, 2012 @ 01:01:11

    What a beautiful blog post. I enjoyed reading it very much!

    Reply

  4. Ganesh Raam
    Nov 27, 2012 @ 19:17:13

    this is great stuff! Loved it!!!

    Reply

  5. Chuck Douros - Senior Writer for Runwritedig
    Nov 27, 2012 @ 14:54:47

    Diane very nice. I’ll follow you anywhere- your blog, that is. :)

    Thanks for liking my blog.

    Chuck

    Reply

    • coastalmom
      Nov 28, 2012 @ 13:53:34

      Ah Chuck,
      Thanks so much! You know me… I don’t ever “LIKE” something just for the click so ya know you are something special! I only click the best of the best! Thanks for following!!! ;)

      Reply

  6. Alice
    Nov 26, 2012 @ 15:33:30

    Good old Ralph helped you out, huh? Love your blog!

    Reply

  7. Ralph
    Nov 26, 2012 @ 11:02:13

    Hi Diane. Thank you for visiting my blog and your likes and comments. I can help you to get rid of “A great WordPress.com site” at the top of your page. Go to Dashboard/Settings/General/Tagline and type in what you like and don’t forget to Save Changes at the bottom of the page. Ralph x

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    • coastalmom
      Nov 26, 2012 @ 11:04:17

      Thanks Ralph! I will go check it out! (((Hugs))))

      Reply

    • coastalmom
      Nov 26, 2012 @ 11:19:35

      THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn’t even realize that I could do that! NOW I wish I could take a class from you! I am sure there is a lot more that I never realized I could change on my page!!! Again, a thousand thank yous!!!
      XOXO

      Reply

      • Ralph
        Nov 26, 2012 @ 11:29:50

        You are welcome :) It looks like you have just had a major makeover. Different.
        By the way your poem was great :)

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        • coastalmom
          Nov 26, 2012 @ 11:37:16

          I know you got me wandering around my site… but I think I may go back to the old background but until you, I didn’t even realize I had control over my tagline!!!! I guess the operative word here is : Duhhhhh! lol.

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          • Ralph
            Nov 26, 2012 @ 11:40:57

            Duhhhhhh !! Great tagline :D

            Reply

            • coastalmom
              Nov 26, 2012 @ 12:08:35

              LOL. Wish I had thought of that! I used to say it so much… I was a bad example to my daughter who got in trouble for saying it in 4th grade! Come on, duhhhh? seriously? I guess if she had said it to her teacher…. I’d get it… but she said it to another kid. After that I have been careful who I say it to, and it is usually only to describe me! ;)

              Reply

  8. kelihasablog
    Nov 26, 2012 @ 01:50:10

    I love the way you lay out the words with pictures interspersed…. I must say, I love your questions and answers because they sound exactly like something I’d say… LOL. (Only I’m sure I’ve done it a few more times than normal people…LOL)
    Thanks for stopping by and reading my blog and leaving such wonderfully kind comments! :D

    Reply

    • coastalmom
      Nov 26, 2012 @ 01:59:01

      I came upon your blog by accident and I am absolutely hooked! YOU are amazing! A profound writer and thought provoker! And politically, I am ashamed to say… you educate me… I wish I had half the knowledge you seem to have. You make me want to learn at this old age rather than relying on what others say about things!!!
      My bff of over 50 years is a cancer survivor and I have watched her fight… she is a survivor of over 15 years from stage 3 breast cancer and I think half of it was just getting angry at her no hope doctor who now uses her as a testimonial to give others hope… so my prayers are with you on this journey… but what really got me was your poetry! YOU are a package my dear! And I am pleased to have discovered you! Thank you for checking my blog out. I love your pics! I love your sayings! We should live next door! lol.

      Reply

  9. charlesmashburn
    Nov 25, 2012 @ 11:39:13

    Beautiful, Dianne. I can certainly relate, but as I get older (and wiser?) I learn that I am exactly who I am because of all I’ve been, and who I am ain’t so bad.
    (Found your poem via a re-blog by Sharla.)

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    • coastalmom
      Nov 25, 2012 @ 14:42:05

      I agree! That was my point exactly! Wouldn’t it be nice to go through all we have, knowing what we do now… with they… yes… wisdom (smile) that we now have because of the experiences and really appreciate who we are today? Like standing on a mountain top after the climb… It is hard to look down as we are climbing, but the view is crystal clear from the top. Ya know? I think we could actually define that as wisdom!
      Thanks for reading! I appreciate everyone’s time cuzzzz I know I can be wordy!

      Reply

      • charlesmashburn
        Nov 25, 2012 @ 15:41:53

        Don’t worry about being wordy. It’s what you are.

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        • coastalmom
          Nov 25, 2012 @ 15:46:39

          Thanks
          I think… lol…
          Some people dont’ consider that one of my better traits! But love ya for saying it!

          Reply

          • charlesmashburn
            Nov 25, 2012 @ 15:52:56

            You write well, and I believe we should write what we want to say, not what we think others want to hear. I don’t write to make money (a darn good thing) or to please others; I write because I love to write. I’ve learned over the years, that I am my biggest fan, and if I like it, that’s good enough. If someone else likes it, it’s just icing on the cake.

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            • coastalmom
              Nov 25, 2012 @ 19:04:40

              What an amazingly wise thing you just said, put so perfectly! I am positive that was a run on sentence. Smile.
              I agree with you whole heartedly. And I had to smile when you said it was a darn good thing. I only wish I could write for a living in the perfect world inside of my head!
              And writing for me… I agree! THAT is what it’s all about!
              My daughter is a brilliant writer! I am totally re-writing Chapter six of my book over again, thanks to her.. and rightly so… I could take half of it out. But it took reading it out loud to her and getting an honest opinion by someone who loves me. And I totally agree when it comes to that but she also told me that I should have ended this poem at: Yes~ I’d do it all again.
              And I have gotten more comments on the sentences after that, so in this case, I wrote it for me… because (for me) that was what the whole poem was about. And again, I am pretty darn wordy… lol… but the icing on the cake is definitely when someone else likes it!!! And meeting people like you that share the same passions. It is the icing and the cherry on top! (Remind me to thank Sharla!) :)

              Reply

  10. WordsFallFromMyEyes
    Nov 24, 2012 @ 21:51:03

    I like that – wisdom in revisions. Because I would not “do it all again”. I would prevent my son from what happened to him. I was too dumb, and without confidence to stand up for us both.

    This is beautifully worded. Cheers.

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    • coastalmom
      Nov 25, 2012 @ 02:45:16

      But…. I read your about page and you have an amazing story…with many pages still to fill… a great life to give your son, an opportunity to break the cycle! I believe you will do great things! I am honored that you found this blog. Thanks for visiting!

      Reply

  11. danajoward
    Nov 24, 2012 @ 19:57:01

    Wonderfully written and the photos are amazing. I love this and I thank you for sharing. ;)

    Reply

  12. Ray's Mom
    Nov 24, 2012 @ 15:40:45

    Reblogged this on JUSTICE FOR RAYMOND and commented:
    An interesting thought

    Reply

  13. Virgilio Gavia
    Nov 24, 2012 @ 01:19:14

    beautiful!

    Reply

  14. catnipoflife
    Nov 24, 2012 @ 00:06:13

    Awesome! Pinned and Tweeted. Will reblog tomorrow:>)

    Reply

  15. Joy is now
    Nov 23, 2012 @ 20:59:17

    Wow that is so beautiful as well as thought provoking! Absolutely love it Diane! Great sentiments, words, pictures. I love that you really put your love in to bring it to us in the best possible way. It takes work and I appreciate the time you spent.

    Reply

  16. Ann Marquette
    Nov 23, 2012 @ 18:11:54

    Wow! LOVE this. Makes me ponder my own life! Hope you had a fabulous Thanksgiving.
    Blessings,

    Reply

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